The Sexually Confident Wife by Shannon Ethridge

Author:Shannon Ethridge
Language: eng
Format: epub
ISBN: 9780767930918
Publisher: Harmony/Rodale
Published: 2008-10-15T00:00:00+00:00

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Tantalizing Sexual Techniques

When you hear the term missionary position, what comes to mind? If the position part of the term strikes you, you most likely envision a couple facing each other horizontally and having intercourse while the man is on top. If the missionary part of the term strikes you, perhaps you envision devout religious people spreading the myth that this form of sexual intercourse is the only acceptable one in God’s eyes. Or perhaps the term evokes completely different images altogether for whatever reason. Maybe this is one of your favorite sexual positions, and your husband’s, too. If so, don’t let me discourage you from enjoying it! However, in the spirit of maximizing sexual fulfillment in your marriage, I want to challenge you to think outside the missionary box.

Do you want to know what comes to my mind when I hear the term missionary position? Honestly, I think of lazy women and bored men.

I’m not saying this position can’t be fun and pleasurable, but let’s be honest. Oftentimes it’s used for lack of creativity or energy. At the end of the day, he’s feeling frisky and she’s feeling exhausted. He attempts to initiate. She grimaces on the inside but succumbs to his advances only if he’s willing to do the work. With the lights off and the covers up, she spreads her legs, he rolls over to mount, and wham, bam, thank you, ma’am, we have intercourse. But where’s the passion? The energy and excitement? The playful titillation?

Maybe I’m overdramatizing just a bit, but if we’re honest, this is often how our sexual relationship plays itself out. All of the fun, frivolity, and fulfillment get lost in our sexual laziness and relational apathy. But it doesn’t have to be that way. We can have extremely rewarding sexual experiences if we’re willing to move beyond the missionary position and incorporate some more tantalizing sexual techniques into our repertoire—techniques that we can implement both inside and outside the bedroom.

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